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When the Cabin Goes Quiet: What Jasmin’s Story Teaches Us About Just Culture, Psychological Safety, and the Human Cost of Aviation Silence
Aviation is built on layers of safety—mechanical checks, operational protocols, regulatory compliance, and teamwork. We train for turbulence, medical events, unruly passengers, and emergencies we pray never happen. But for all the systems we’ve mastered, there is one area where our industry remains dangerously vulnerable: The emotional and psychological safety of the people who keep aviation running. This truth resurfaced with heartbreaking clarity in the recent inquest into

Suhadee Henriquez
Dec 8, 20254 min read


7 Cabin Secrets Every Flyer Should Know —
If you’ve ever stepped into a crowded airport with your heart racing, your shoulders tense, and your mind preparing for impact before you’ve even reached TSA, trust me — you’re not alone. Airports and airplanes are emotional ecosystems.They trigger memories, anxiety, sensory overload, grief, claustrophobia, and even childhood wounds. I know this intimately — not only as a psychotherapist who specializes in anxiety, trauma, and chronic invisible illnesses, but also as someone

Suhadee Henriquez
Dec 7, 20254 min read


Travel Under Strain: Trauma & Delay Preparedness Checklist
1. Before You Travel — Prepare Your Mind & Tools Documents & Logistics Arrive earlier than usual (2.5–3 hours domestic, 3.5–4 hours international). Download your airline’s app (boarding passes, gate changes, delay alerts). Enable flight notifications via email, text, or app push alerts. Pack medications, chargers, valuable items in carry-on only (not checked bags). Calm-in-Your-Pocket Kit (Download Before Travel) Offline playlists (music, nature sounds, worship songs, ca

Suhadee Henriquez
Nov 10, 20253 min read


What Fearful Flyers Need to Know During Uncertain Times
A Captain’s Message: What Fearful Flyers Need to Know During Uncertain Times During one of the most uncertain periods in recent aviation history, a commercial airline captain stood at the front of his cabin before takeoff and delivered a message that resonated far beyond his passengers that day. He didn’t talk about politics or delays. He didn’t minimize anyone’s stress. Instead, he spoke directly to the heart of what every anxious flyer needs to hear: “This aircraft does not

Suhadee Henriquez
Nov 10, 20253 min read


When the Sky Feels Heavy: Understanding Fear of Flying and How to Calm It
By The Flying Psychotherapist There’s something breathtaking about that moment right before takeoff—engines humming, hearts racing, a...

Suhadee Henriquez
Oct 6, 20254 min read


"9/11 and My Story: Responding to What Others Fear – A Life Between Emergencies"
By Suhadee Henriquez, LCSW — The Flying Psychotherapist As the anniversary of September 11 approaches, a familiar weight returns to my...

Suhadee Henriquez
Sep 4, 20254 min read


When Headlines Heighten Fear: How the Media Fuels Flight Anxiety and What You Can Do About It
By The Flying Psychotherapist Every week—or so it seems—there’s another aviation headline.“Plane makes emergency landing.”“Severe...

Suhadee Henriquez
Aug 12, 20253 min read


The Sky Within Us: Always Looking Up
By: Su The Flying Psychotherapist There’s a kind of quiet magic that happens the moment we hear a plane rumble across the sky. No matter...

Suhadee Henriquez
Jul 11, 20253 min read


“Becoming the Sky: A Therapist’s Journey with a Passenger in Fear”
“Becoming the Sky: A Therapist’s Journey with a Passenger in Fear” By The Flying Psychotherapist Before I was ever a therapist, I lived...

Suhadee Henriquez
Jun 25, 20253 min read


The Other Side of the Sky
By: Su The Flying Psychotherapist There’s a side of aviation the world doesn’t always see. It’s not the perfectly ironed uniform, the...

Suhadee Henriquez
Jun 22, 20253 min read


Today, the skies feel heavier
From The Flying Psychotherapist There are days when the beauty of flight carries weight we cannot see. Today is one of those days. My...

Suhadee Henriquez
Jun 13, 20252 min read


Would I Fly Out of Newark Today? Yes — And Here’s Why.
By Su-The Flying Psychotherapist With the recent headlines about air traffic controller staffing issues and weather-related delays at...

Suhadee Henriquez
May 20, 20253 min read


Exploring the Scenic Journey: What Awaits Beyond the Window on Dallas to El Paso Flights
Traveling from Dallas, Texas, to El Paso offers not just a change in scenery but a delightful experience filled with stunning landscapes....

Suhadee Henriquez
May 20, 20253 min read


What Awaits Beyond the Windows on a Flight from DFW to LAX
Flying from Dallas/Fort Worth (DFW) to Los Angeles (LAX) is more than just a means of transportation; it’s a chance to experience...

Suhadee Henriquez
May 20, 20253 min read


All in Due Time
From the Heart of a Flight Attendant Who Once Had a Dream There will be moments when your dream seems to slip further away—no matter how...

Suhadee Henriquez
May 20, 20252 min read


Do Butterflies Dream?
And What That Teaches Us About Flight Butterflies drift through the air with delicate grace — weightless, colorful, and free. They don’t...

Suhadee Henriquez
May 20, 20252 min read


From The Flying Psychotherapist: For All My Nervous Flyers
I know that after hearing about the recent events at Newark Airport, some of you might feel a surge of anxiety about flying. Let me...

Suhadee Henriquez
May 9, 20252 min read


To the traveler with a fear of flying —
I want to share something with you, from the heart of a flight attendant who has walked the aisles beside thousands of passengers, each...

Suhadee Henriquez
May 7, 20251 min read
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